Push!

“I can do…”

(don’t stop there)

“I can do all things…”

(not quite there yet)

“I can do all things through Christ…”

(keep going)

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

(wait, there’s more)

There’s MORE?!?

Yes. Check the context.

This verse has nothing to do with will power or goal-setting or goal-getting or team spirit or community vibe.

Let’s go back to the actual words on the page and the situation that gave birth to them.

The apostle Paul is not standing on a stage with lights and loud music. He is sitting in a Roman prison—chained, probably cold, writing by the light of whatever small lamp the guards allowed. He does not know if he will live or die. He is not crafting a motivational speech. He is writing a thank-you note to a small, struggling church in Philippi that had scraped together money and supplies to help him while he was in need.

Here is the fuller picture (Philippians 4:11-13):

“Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”

Paul is not saying, “With enough faith and positive thinking, you can achieve any dream you set your mind to.”

He is saying something far quieter, far stronger, and far more comforting:

“I have learned the secret of being content—no matter what season God has placed me in. Whether life feels abundant or painfully empty. Whether my body is healthy or breaking. Whether people are kind or cruel. In every single shifting circumstance, I am not left to survive on my own willpower. Christ Himself gives me the strength I need to remain faithful and steady.”

The “all things” is not a blank check for personal ambition.

The “all things” means all the ordinary, hard, confusing, and sometimes terrifying things that God’s people are actually called to walk through in this broken world.

It is the strength to rejoice even when the prison door stays locked.

It is the grace to keep loving when you feel empty.

It is the peace that holds your heart when the future looks dark.

It is the endurance to keep trusting when every feeling screams “give up.”

So the verse is not mainly about what you can accomplish.

It is about Who holds you when you feel you can accomplish nothing at all.

That is why a chained apostle could still overflow with joy.

He was not announcing his own unlimited potential.

He was announcing the unlimited sufficiency of Christ.

And that, dear reader, is the push that takes you farther than your self-talk ever could.

Got cold feet?

Silhouette of a bride standing in a puddle, wearing a wedding dress and sneakers, with soft bokeh lights in the background.

I did… the night of December 19, 2012.

I was all alone in a food court in Ortigas. I didn’t have a bag with me. I had less than Php100 in my pocket and my nearly-drained tablet.

I left my mom with a lady friend in the hotel we were booked in for my DIY breakfast wedding.

I thought things through for the nth time. All details were set. People we invited confirmed they’ll be there.

“Will it glorify God?” was the question.

Will it glorify God if I just… disappeared?

I woke up the next morning, mom and I and my lady friend were even able to have a short devotional. Mom braided my hair with DIY hairpins. I did my own makeup.

For some reason, another lady friend thought it best to lock me in a friend’s car with the aircon off for so many minutes before letting me in.

Perhaps to ensure that I won’t run away?

Anyway, by the grace of God, our small wedding pushed through . We exchanged our vows. Everyone came and went, until it was only my husband and I left.

We got enough cash to settle the restaurant bills.

We had enough to last our first week together.

And we had just enough to cover the first three months of our rented home.

Just enough.

It’s been almost 13 years since then.

The question I have now is: “Is God more glorified in and through me today than He was, 13 years ago?”

Meanwhile.

A bride-to-be disappeared on December 10th this year, just 4 days before her wedding. She fit her wedding dress. Last communication with her fiancé was about wedding shoes: she was going to buy a pair.

She wore a black jacket over black pants, and rubber shoes. She left her phone at home and only had a coin purse with her.

I’m not imeldific – I can’t afford to be one. So it takes a looooot of time for me to find “the perfect fit” by myself. Thankfully, my fiancĂ© back in 2012 mall-hopped with me so I can decide and find the pair that would best fit my dress. (I actually wanted for us to wear running shoes but he didn’t agree.)

Anyway. So where is the bride-to-be?

I can only guess, in the simplest of ways, that perhaps she got awfully tired of looking for the perfect pair of shoes and chose to disappear.

People say there are monasteries in the vicinity where she was last seen. Perhaps she’s there.

The Fairview Center Mall (FCM) is where the bride-to-be was going to buy her shoes. Could she be in one of the three monasteries in the area?
The Fairview Center Mall (FCM) is where the bride-to-be was going to buy her shoes. Could she be in one of the three monasteries in the area?

Will this missing person search glorify God? I have no doubt it will – it does, as we speak.

Proverbs 25:2, NASB: “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter, But the glory of kings is to search out a matter.”