Weekday Getaway

I remember it like it was only yesterday: our first-ever quick getaway – on our own – as a family of 3.

It took me several days to prepare our luggage for a 3D2N stay. When you have a toddler, it’s “better to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it,” as my sister would say.

I found the property on GoogleMaps and made reservations thru their FB/Messenger. I booked 1 cabina (w/ free breakfast for 2) for Wed-Fri and availed of their discounted off-peak rates.

Wednesday: Helpful people

Kuya Allan, our favorite iDol Taxi driver, picked us up from our sunshine home and dropped us off at the resort.

Safe ride from Batangas City to any point in Region 4A/Calabarzon.
Kuya Allan, our favorite iDol taxi driver.
Our home for 3D2N.

We were late for check-in but it was hassle-free. Shortly after paying for our accommodation, we were ushered in to the Bonifacio Cabina.

We moved the three beds together to make a huuuuge one.

Unfortunately, my OC tendencies failed me. We missed the in-resort restaurant (they were open only until 5pm). And I forgot hubby’s swimming gear!

We had a few minutes before sundown to explore and take a few photos.
The kiddie pool.
All of these to ourselves!

Hubby thought it will be safer if he left us in the cabina while he searched the vicinity for food and water. I felt otherwise so I insisted that our son and I tag along.

The sun was setting and we were getting hungrier by the minute. Signal was weak, foodpanda was unavailable. We waited by the gate of the resort for public transportation. Zero. We started walking.

Then… God.

God sent help. An angel – a tricycle (or trike) driver – passed by and took us to a water refilling station. It was closed but the people were kind enough to sell us 5 gallons of mineral water in a blue jerrycan with faucet.

Kuya trike driver also took us to an area of the neighborhood where food was sold. Hubby got cooked rice, lechon manok, lechon liempo and pinakbet. Thankfully, there was also an Alfa Mart, so we bought 7 liters of Wilkins Distilled Water for our little one.

In my short chat with Kuya trike driver, I learned that he was a barangay police. He was actually on his way home when he saw us. He could’ve simply said “No” when my husband waved at him but he went out of his way and asked how he can help us.

It was dark by the time we returned to the resort. We blessed Kuya trike driver as he went back to his family. We DIY-ed our way to dine al fresco on a moonlit night.

Then…I found out I forgot to pack our eating utensils! Thankfully, Tatay Cito, Pueblo’s caretaker, lent us some. He also helped us connect to the resort’s internet.

After tidying up and a quick man-to-man talk between hubby and our little one, lights out.

Thursday: No problem!

There’s nothing better than waking up to a reminder that God is always there for you, ready to help when you need it. Beholding the wonders of His creation is an added bonus.

Our verse for the day.

God’s timing is amazing. Our toddler attends an online playgroup every Thursday and the month’s theme coincided with our trip: Nature.

I managed to take a few photos of the cabina‘s quaint toilet and bath.

The lavatory is open. It separates the toilet and the bath, each of which have windows for ventilation and sliding doors for privacy.
The toilet can be improved with safety rails but overall it is safe and spacious enough for people with mobility issues.
The bath area offers ample elbow room for assisted bathing. Water heater is available.

(to be continued…)

“Godliness with contentment is great gain.”

Do you practice religion?

Thank you for this prompt, Wordpress.

What is religion but the belief that there is a God who is truly powerful over all?

Perhaps many of us have encountered a religious person or someone who calls himself religious but whose life is broken, useless, meaningless, and full of pain and suffering, devoid of hope, devoid of joy. How come?

“6 Of course, godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, so we cannot carry anything out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with these.”
1 Timothy 6:6‭-‬8 BSB

https://bible.com/bible/3034/1ti.6.6-8.BSB

1 Timothy 6:6-8 shows us that if a person can be content, then his religion is beneficial.

But how do I find contentment?

How can I be happy and find contentment in the things I think about? What is real contentment?

If anyone knows how to be grateful and be happy that s/he has food to eat and clothes to wear, then religion is of benefit to that person.

Each of us was born with nothing, and in our death, we’ll take nothing with us either.

If, by the grace of God, I will live by the teachings of the God I believe in, then I can live with thankfulness and be content each day.

Great Father, please open my eyes and my mind to learn and live with contentment. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit. Teach me to be thankful for the little things, to be faithful in the little things, so that when the time comes and You be willing to entrust me with bigger things in my family, school, and livelihood, Your Name will be glorified in my life, in the lives of my loved ones, and the people I meet each day. To You alone, Father God, be all praise and worship! This is my prayer and petition in the name of Your Son Jesus, my Lord and Savior.

On Running and Marriage

Running has always given me a sense of accomplishment. It fuels my inner drive to go for just one more mile, one more step… and some more.

I thought marriage would fully unleash the athlete in me but I was mistaken – at least for the past 10 years. Marriage revealed the sloth.

Marriage IS a gift, it is a wonderful thing but it takes hardwork. The thing is, I don’t always like hardwork. However, in completing a marathon and making a marriage last, perseverance is key. Discipline is necessary.

I am skeptical of married couples who say they “don’t fight.” If you don’t fight then how can you and your spouse grow, not just go, through conlict?

You can go through conflict, sweep it under the rug and pretend that it doesn’t exist. You know, keep the peace… then divorce later?

Or you can grow through the conflict, confront your own demons, work together, and keep love aglow until ever after. Or something like that.

Conflict brought about by a married couple’s differences are not meant to be conciliatory. They’re meant to be complementary.

– ancore!

My marriage is teaching me (among many other things) that happiness is a choice I can make everyday.

I can choose to be happy regardless of who (or “what”) I’m married to. I can choose to complement and compliment my husband specially when it’s most challenging to do so.

I was single and happy when I completed my first half marathon. I thought if I got married, it’ll double the fun. Thankfully, I am not 100% wrong.

Word to the wise: if you’re not happy being single (or running alone), don’t get married. You won’t get any happier when you tie the knot. Just tie your shoelaces and keep running.

Oneness in marriage is not about codependency. It’s about not losing who you are as you work (should you decide to work) through your differences.

Oneness in marriage is like putting on a pair of marathon shoes that will weather all terrains. I can’t change shoes (or carry an extra pair) when I run a marathon, can I?

β€œPhysical training is good, but training for godliness is much better, promising benefits in this life and in the life to come.”

1 Timothy 4:8 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/1ti.4.8.NLT

May I persevere as marriage trains me towards godliness.